Theory of Relationships. Part 1

My take on a friend’s blog:

Each of us has different stimuli, different experiences and hence different lives. Each of these experiences, I believe, contributes to us having a unique “Frequency”. Not just people but EVERYthing here has it’s own Frequency.

When we interact with people who operate closer to our frequencies, we feel a sense of comfort, of bonding, of “oneness”. Science calls this resonance…

You must note here that since our frequencies are changing, our relationships with people are also bound to change. Frequencies that matched at some point of time in the past may not match now. People who you though were “so not my type” suddenly are.

Days when you feel blue or down, you feel "out of sync". all that has happened is that your frequiences have rapidly changed and are now clashing with people that you have sorrounded yourself with. What you need is some time... you should get back to normal. In case this is a continued reality maybe, just maybe you need to consider a diffrent reality.

You can call this growth, growing apart (or intimacy). I choose to call it change.

All of this gives us a couple of avenues to think about:

1. Time (you have been in a relationship)really doesn’t matter. What matters is how close your frequencies are with each other at that particular point of time.
2. YOU are responsible for a relationship. If someone is ‘just impossible to get along with’; you are also at fault.
3. You are responsible for sustaining a relationship. Interacting with someone closely will allow you to modulate your frequencies within a “safe band”. A relationship survives. Work on this.
4. What grew apart can ALWAYS be mended. Pick up the phone call that friend you knew from long ago.
5. Give people a second chance: maybe it just wasn’t the right moment.

The human psyche craves for satisfaction, for pleasure. The high that we had from a resonating interaction is what makes us hold-on to people. Illogically we hang-on to relationships that we know are not working out. Doing so, we strain these relationships further, growing further apart. Maybe what we need is to go into a status quo mode and try interacting at a more profitable time. Think about it doesn’t that almost always work?

Rekhi (and other beliefs) calls these frequencies “Auras”. Auras are of different colors each indicating a different state of “being”. (Frequencies directly correlate to colors in science.) Rekhi in fact works to balance these disturbances in the auras so that we are “balanced”.

More on this later...